Talk to her. The longer you leave it without talking to her about it the mire you are making the problem for yourself. Talk to her.
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Talk to her. The longer you leave it without talking to her about it the mire you are making the problem for yourself. Talk to her.
She is amazing, and Jimmy is hilarious... The two together are one epic of a win.
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You're in the wrong thread, this one is for when it goes pear shaped. 
You require this one
http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=17877100&highlight=Internet+dating
You require this one
http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=17877100&highlight=Internet+dating
Short answer - get under a different one.
I'm really not like that though, the way I feel now I couldn't even imagine myself with another girl.
Guess I just need to man up and accept what's happened between me and her.
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We all feel/felt like that and then suddenly you meet an amazing person who makes you wonder what you were missing before you met her.
I don't know if it's manning up, per se. Accepting that a relationship is over is a healthy and necessary part of the process. It sucks for a while and things can seem pretty bleak but you move on with your life and meet someone who is better suited to you. After all, if you were meant to be with the ex you would still be with her.
Meet someone else, be awesome, win at life.
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Yea I misread it to start with, had already posted the reply before I noticed what you actually meant.
I don't do going out and getting wasted anyway (gave that up when I nearly didn't wake up one morning after back in my teens)
I've got someone in mind already anyway, not that I'll be chasing it up at all for a while yet as they know what the situ is, but we will meet regularly at an event I go to monthly anyway, so no bother.
With all due respect, I've met you and you're a ****ing legend.
Her loss!
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Balls to that, when I got punched in the heart I jumped back under my ex. Made me feel much better!
Go forth and multiply, literally
Time will heal the heart, at least you have time on your side, (assumption from the fact you said it was your first GF)
At my age I don't feel quite the same, It was more of a "finally got the right woman, after all these years of idiots"
Then after 6 months she goes back to her lying cheating ex..
Now THAT is a kick in the nads!
It's been a week or so for me too now, I still think about her but have pretty much stopped thinking about "what could have been".
It won't now and never will be so time to move on.
Oh and delete her off your damn facebook man!
At my age I don't feel quite the same, It was more of a "finally got the right woman, after all these years of idiots"
Then after 6 months she goes back to her lying cheating ex..
Now THAT is a kick in the nads!
It's been a week or so for me too now, I still think about her but have pretty much stopped thinking about "what could have been".
It won't now and never will be so time to move on.
Oh and delete her off your damn facebook man!
With all due respect, I've met you and you're a ****ing legend.
Her loss!
Aww shucks man...
*Bro hugs
This is for your own good. You will eventually move on and get over her but it does take time. Best thing to do now is focus on yourself and keep busy.
My ex didn't delete me and I don't really know if it does help or not. We've stayed in contact and chat a bit. The difference now is I still love her, but I don't want to be with her. That's more down to time than contact.