Absolutely no reason not to pursue this
Your concerns are valid. How long were you with your ex? (if it's 10 months 10 days isn't too bad, if it's 10 years...)
If she asks tell the new girl the honest answer even if it scares he off (no point lying!).
It may well put her off. But that said I wouldn't volunteer up the info!
Had a potential stumbling point with my gf when she found out I was engaged to my ex. I never told her, but nor had she asked. One of reasons it didn't end there was that she told me that when she confronted me because I showed no emotion towards it that she was happy I'd moved on.
So I'd say if she does ask tell the truth but show (without saying it) that you are over it.
This is no bad thing whatever, as it is showing you that there is better out there! Especially if she messaged you first! You lucky dog!
Your concerns are valid. How long were you with your ex? (if it's 10 months 10 days isn't too bad, if it's 10 years...)
If she asks tell the new girl the honest answer even if it scares he off (no point lying!).
It may well put her off. But that said I wouldn't volunteer up the info!
Had a potential stumbling point with my gf when she found out I was engaged to my ex. I never told her, but nor had she asked. One of reasons it didn't end there was that she told me that when she confronted me because I showed no emotion towards it that she was happy I'd moved on.
So I'd say if she does ask tell the truth but show (without saying it) that you are over it.
This is no bad thing whatever, as it is showing you that there is better out there! Especially if she messaged you first! You lucky dog!