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Weekends partying, working and gym during the week - Jeez, how much more free time do you have? Sounds like you're doing just fine in the 'keeping yourself occupied' stakes.Hey all,
So basically, a few months ago I broke up with my ex of almost 4 years. Now even though I broke up with her I am struggling to get over the relationship, I find my self with a lot of free time in comparison to before, I am spending my weekends partying / going out in an attempt to keep my self busy, and working during the week, gym on week nights etc, but its tough filling all that time where you previously were always with someone, know what I mean?
I don't know how long it has been, but I still feel crappy about the whole thing.
Any words of advice guys?
As for how long it'll take to not feel crappy, you've got to expect 6 months to a year. In my case, after a 26 year relationship that was the foundation of my world, it took about 8 months until I felt 'normal' again. As the guys here said to me at the time, there will be peaks and troughs along the way - you'll feel great and then something will happen to make you feel like crap again - but gradually the peaks will begin to outnumber the troughs.
This is totally me at the moment - freedom to do what you want when you want after years having to consider someone else is breathtaking. I really don't mean that to come across as selfish as it sounds, but it's true ...Me personally cannot be arsed with women anymore, one man band from now on for me. Ham shank money in the bank.