Jesus dude, how defeatist are you? I'm not one to start spouting all that alpha male, red pill nonsense but what I will say is you're making massive negative assumptions about someone just by a glance and clearly have zero self confidence! Okay, I used to be exactly the same but learned the hard way to be different. So I'm talking from experience.
Let's look at what you said first you "Accidentally walked past a girl I was attracted to today..." Why accidentally? Unless you snuck into the ladies toilets or where at a women only event you had every much as right to be there as she did. You looked at her and she looked away so that means she's just not attracted to you? Are you able to read minds? Do you have any idea what this girl has going on in her life right at that particular moment? Okay so, lets say she isn't attracted to you. Why the hell would you let that bother you? Do you know this girl very well? Are you madly deeply crushing on her? If so, stop! If not, don't worry about it. You are right though, there are plenty more fish in the sea. You just need to put yourself out there.
Who the hell cares if you look like Brad Pitt or Leonardo? I guarantee that even if you looked like the ******* love child of of Freddy Mercury and what my daughter scraped off of her shoe when she came home from school. There is someone out there who will find you physically attractive. Whether its your smile, your eyes or whatever.
Look at me, I've been with my missus coming on the best 8 years of my life! When we met, before I was disabled after an injury at work you wouldn't have matched us together. I was 6ft 8 and seriously over weight and I don't look like your typical male model/ actor. She was then a 5ft4 slender goddess with hour glass figure. People would look at us like "how in the hell did that happen" Well I'll tell you...
She'd just tentatively started dating someone when we met and was totally up front about it. I was equally up front about things, that I enjoyed talking to her and was happy to carry on doing so but I was wanting more than friendship. I didn't do the "I'll be her friend until she finally notices me" nonsense or anything else. If she'd told me flat out she just wasn't interested I'd have simply moved on. I just made no bones of my intentions and I really got to know her. And, what I found out I really liked. The fact she is gorgeous was just icing on the cake.
And that my friend is the key.
If you want to just smash and dash, online dating makes that incredibly easy... it's just a numbers game. Something more meaningful, ask yourself what it is you actually want from a partner and where you place value. Then stick to that and don't settle for anything less.
