The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

[Vidar]

Women and logic rarely go in the same sentence. Obviously something more to it but if she does tell you, well we aren't psychic are we?

Personally never seen any point to NY Eve as it's just another day/night but some people get excited by it

Thanks, personally I'm just not that fussed about it. After so many years on the doors before my injury, my interest in it was very much replaced with a desire to just chill at home. Which, I've gotten to do now, for the past several years. That said, I know it's the generally accepted thing for people so have always tried to make it nice, my fiancée has just never been one of those people.

Again, it doesn't bother me she wants to go and hang out with friends now she has some (she's struggled with that due to crippling anxiety). What bothers me is her reaction to my question. I don't think it was unreasonable of me.

 

[SexyGreyFox]

Mines started talking when she doesn't need to after 50 years.
eg
Are you building that shelf unit tomorrow?
No
Well if you are ......
Can I just stop you there, I said no so there is no reason to give me a list of reasons why you don't want it doing, the conversation ended when I said no.

Are you going out in the car?
No
Well if you are ......................
Duck the conversation ended when I said no

Other than that she's a great woman.