Soldato
Get yourself to a Hooters bar whilst you're over there, keep yourself happy for an hour or two
Get yourself to a Hooters bar whilst you're over there, keep yourself happy for an hour or two
when all I do in life is geared around her and our kids
There's your problem. Your not a slave to your wife and kids and if anyone is in this kind of relationship I would seriously evaluate how it came to be.
You have been walked all over, and it will continue to happen unless you do something to stop it.
but I feel like im trying to discuss/argue with the worlds cleverest 12 year old at times
Gave up for my own sanity and went to bed. Im not perfect, and earlier on during the day i've said things over text which arent nice (not insulting though), but, feel like im the only one trying at this point.
Mentally, im resetting this morning and obviously giving it another try after work...
My wife tried this on last night by repeating what I had said but in a 12 year old's mocking style of voice.
My wife tried this on last night by repeating what I had said but in a 12 year old's mocking style of voice.
I'm thinking of going to my gp when I get home for anti depressants
How do these things actually work? When it's heavily linked to an event (fiancee leaving) combined with my genetics (both parents have it) will it work?
It obviously can't delete memories. Will it change way I see things?
Exactly that last night. Sigh.
Obviously don't know your or the mrs mate, but when she "lost" this expensive watch, you don't think she could have left it at some blokes house do you?
Then you buying her a replacement, she's suddenly feeling very guilty and trying to push the blame on you to make herself feel better?
Might be completely wrong but i'm just very suspiscious when something like that happens and can't understand how anybody could lose a watch on a night out, particularly a hen night!
edit: for background an ex of mine, lost a necklace on a night out, it turned up at my mates ...
Obviously don't know your or the mrs mate, but when she "lost" this expensive watch, you don't think she could have left it at some blokes house do you?
Then you buying her a replacement, she's suddenly feeling very guilty and trying to push the blame on you to make herself feel better?
Might be completely wrong but i'm just very suspiscious when something like that happens and can't understand how anybody could lose a watch on a night out, particularly a hen night!
edit: for background an ex of mine, lost a necklace on a night out, it turned up at my mates ...
Yup, absolutely hate it when attempts are made to minimize, mock, change tack and not deal with the problem at hand. Helps no-one at all when one party is...how shall i put this...expected to fold and simply apologize and take all the pain onboard.
That's EXACTLY what I was thinking, even more so after reading that OP had sat down with her and pretty much apologised for doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong.
There's something very amiss here, her actions are not those of a guilt free or loved up woman in a happy relationship.
Man that sounds harsh, but that's how it reads to me.
We live in Gibraltar
Nah completely wrong mate, but don't mind you asking that at all.
She is intensely loyal and wouldnt do that. Were abhorrent about people who cheat and then break up after. We live in Gibraltar, shes originally from Manchester (moved 16 years go), so some of our friends here had a hen do up in Manchester, she also took the opportunity to see some friends over there too over the course of the weekend. Ironically i'd just been there a week earlier for the Manchester Derby.
Suspect it either got lost during the course of the night (happens), or pinched at the hotel room (we both have a sneaky suspicion this happened after putting the events of the night together).
It happens, quickly decided to find the same watch, succeeded and was appreciated hugely when I gave it to her on the night before we went out on her birthday bash. Quickly turned into being a "predictable" present after the big argument 2 days ago.
Edit - Wont post the email I sent her a few minutes ago for obvious reasons, but im attempting to get to the bottom of it via any means, whilst putting forward my opinion on what I think is happening, in a the most neutral, level headed way I can muster whilst making sure she knows I love her.
[FnG]magnolia;28191755 said:Just read some of your posts on this page so sorry if I've missed this but have you tried Counselling? It sounds to me like you're getting pretty close to a situation that might be difficult to recover from, or you or her even want to recover from.
Was it one of those thieving little monkey's that live there?