The rise of OnlyFans

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Yeah, funny how they always seeking to improve women’s experiences on dating apps when its 100 times worse for men.

Men are paying, get very little or zero matches and stop paying. Then the companies wonder why they are no longer making money:confused: Like they dont know who their paying customers are?!?!
 
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malachi said:
Yeah, funny how they always seeking to improve women’s experiences on dating apps when its 100 times worse for men.

Men are paying, get very little or zero matches and stop paying. Then the companies wonder why they are no longer making money:confused: Like they dont know who their paying customers are?!?!
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I suspect dating apps generally will collapse in their current form at some point.

I never used to understand paying for lap dances, as they were just a tease. But compared to paying for OF at least you get physical conversation, and sometimes contact.

I wonder if the allure of parasocial relationships will wear off at some point.

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I would look to legalise brothels/massage parlours as tax paying businesses, similar to parts of Australia and the US. Let's see how OF competes.
 
BowdonUK said:
I never used to understand paying for lap dances, as they were just a tease. But compared to paying for OF at least you get physical conversation, and sometimes contact.
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It's like hiring a bike and being told you can't ride it. A couple of ex-bosses used to love going to those kind of places for "meetings" and it did my head in.

I don't think it'd be a terrible thing if online dating died to be honest. It seems to have got to the point where people are using it as an ego-stroking/validation tool rather than looking for anything serious.

Hopefully the simps will eventually start to get some self-respect and figure out how stupid they are being throwing money at people online. That or they suddenly discover the saucy subreddits ;)
 
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fez said:
OnlyFans is just the acceptable face of sex work. I don't know what changed but suddenly it was completely OK to say you do only fans. Whats astonishing is how very average women make a good amount of money on OF. The sort of women that you would think "shes nice enough" but you could find thousands of more attractive ladies online who do far worse for free. :eek:

The problem will come when these people either get a bit older and age out of being attractive or they simply realise that its not really conducive to a normal family life and many people want that. Same reason pursuing any career path that relied on age or beauty but has almost zero transferrable skills.
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The average looking woman on only fans is a more achievable dream for the guys paying. Personally I never understand guys who like smelly women’s feet or guys that like cuckold but there are huge markets for each. Only fans feeds the fetish for guys who could be chatting to the woman at the end of the street, the everyday person not the pornstar
 
Gray2233 said:
I'd never get involved with a woman that did OF, or anything along those lines tbh, it's a giant red flag in my mind.

That said, if that's what some of these women want to do that's up to them, I'm not going to go out of my way to **** on them or anyone else who decides to go that route. While I have my own values I don't believe in forcing them on people that aren't really harming anyone, although there absolutely are people within that scene (media influencers, online types in general etc) who are unworthy of even a modicum of respect.

What I do find extremely creepy is when you see young underage girls talking about making an OF the moment they're of legal age, all the while being supported by much older people screaming about how "sex work is real work!" and half the time it's some greasy middle aged balding bloke with a gut past his knees.
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I have to say neither would I, probably.
It probably wouldn't align with my life style, I'd be too insecure and doubt the longevity of the relationship.

Even if the girl meant well, the allure of wealth would quickly propel her to the point of their being a gulf between my earnings and hers. This often (not always) ends badly.

What can I offer her when she has everything and could have anyone?

Tbh I don't think I could be a kept man anyway. That level of earning would mean my work would be pointless. I'm far and away from a typical "man". But I definitely would struggle being "superfluous"

Must take a rare breed to Truely cope with that gulf. On both sides. Him and her.
 
malachi said:
Yeah, funny how they always seeking to improve women’s experiences on dating apps when its 100 times worse for men.

Men are paying, get very little or zero matches and stop paying. Then the companies wonder why they are no longer making money:confused: Like they dont know who their paying customers are?!?!
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Had a conversation in a group chat other day about this. Said I gave up on dating apps after a few months on them. From people treating it as a free meal out, people flaking out, and ghosting after months of dating? Not for me.


Many said the same with a few that had worked. Mainly ones that worked were when the girl hadn't been on it long.

Then stepped in a Chad (the guy looks great, good job etc) saying they are great and he gets loads of hits.



We all know that's the case. But it was quite funny all us average or belows vs him.


Of course the flip side is there too. If all the women are chasing the top 1pc that's going to leave all the non top 1pc of women disappointed.

So really.. Dating apps are mostly garbage
 
413x said:
Then stepped in a Chad (the guy looks great, good job etc) saying they are great and he gets loads of hits.
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Here's an interesting case study for you guys.

I have a friend of a friend who is incredibly desirable. She's really interesting, she's exciting and full of life, she's very attractive. She travels (seriously she's impressive how much she makes of life). She comes with one big issue.. Long term health issues. And I get the picture shes quite intense in relationships.

She does a lot of Instagram but I'm pretty sure not OF as she has a bf. She'd make a bomb on OF.


She's had a string of failed relationships. She's blessed and cursed with that desirability.
She could probably get nearly any guy into a relationship. And this is a problem. Because she can, she's dated the rich, she's dated the chads, but they all have failed. Mostly... She's dated douches. I get the picture she's the trophy gf.. Then the novelty wears off.

She's now mid 30s, wants a kid of her own, has thesehealth issues, and her latest relationship is on the rocks.


The curse of that desirability is certainly double edged. She's also cursed with wanting to travel and wanting a family and those physical health issues. Imagine being the next guys she dates... She's funny, she's hot, she's adventurous. great.
The reality sets in.. She still seems to want it all.. Travel, family, with health issues, and a top tier guy.

Let's say she doesn't get what she wants, she can always drop back to OF. I wish I had that option.
 
413x said:
Here's an interesting case study for you guys.

I have a friend of a friend who is incredibly desirable. She's really interesting, she's exciting and full of life, she's very attractive. She travels (seriously she's impressive how much she makes of life). She comes with one big issue.. Long term health issues. And I get the picture shes quite intense in relationships.

She does a lot of Instagram but I'm pretty sure not OF as she has a bf. She'd make a bomb on OF.


She's had a string of failed relationships. She's blessed and cursed with that desirability.
She could probably get nearly any guy into a relationship. And this is a problem. Because she can, she's dated the rich, she's dated the chads, but they all have failed. Mostly... She's dated douches. I get the picture she's the trophy gf.. Then the novelty wears off.

She's now mid 30s, wants a kid of her own, has thesehealth issues, and her latest relationship is on the rocks.


The curse of that desirability is certainly double edged. She's also cursed with wanting to travel and wanting a family and those physical health issues. Imagine being the next guys she dates... She's funny, she's hot, she's adventurous. great.
The reality sets in.. She still seems to want it all.. Travel, family, with health issues, and a top tier guy.

Let's say she doesn't get what she wants, she can always drop back to OF. I wish I had that option.
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Sounds like she need to make a choice herself, and realise that she cannot have everything, something has to compromise a little. Be it the family part or the travel part. Yes I know some people with family do travel but most don't, so she need to make a choice and it sounds like that she is in a lucky position to be able to make that choice.
 
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It's already been proven through research that 80% of women are after the same 10% of men on dating apps. The only time I used them was way back in the late 2000s with Match or Plenty Of Fish, met a few people had a few long term relationships, but over the years the entire platform changed to the point its a waste of time for most guys.
 
413x said:
Let's say she doesn't get what she wants, she can always drop back to OF. I wish I had that option.
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Remember the single women would be lonely with their cats and boxed wine!?!!? Now its anti-depresses and therapy.....That will be her. But made her choice.

MadMossy said:
It's already been proven through research that 80% of women are after the same 10% of men on dating apps. The only time I used them was way back in the late 2000s with Match or Plenty Of Fish, met a few people had a few long term relationships, but over the years the entire platform changed to the point its a waste of time for most guys.
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Because the market got flooded with women who no one pays attention to in the real world. Then get a bunch of likes to boost their ego and think they can get George Clooney.
 
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Raymond Lin said:
Sounds like she need to make a choice herself, and realise that she cannot have everything, something has to compromise a little. Be it the family part or the travel part. Yes I know some people with family do travel but most don't, so she need to make a choice and it sounds like that she is in a lucky position to be able to make that choice.
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Yeah agreed. That's what the person who knows her directly said.
Both are big changes. But time is ticking. Wouldn't be so bad if would consider adoption.
 
malachi said:
Haven't you heard?!? Women prefer older men... Where have you been?!?! Yes, George Clooney is still attractive to Gen Z women.

No one mentioned, anything to do with Red Pill.
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No, the vast majority prefer men their own age or slightly older. I never said he wasn't still attractive, but it's a different era. If it was the norm for women to prefer much older men, we'd see it across the board. I think you're confusing age with status, because 60-year-old celebrities who are far less attractive than Clooney could still date and sleep with a new young woman every day if they wanted to.

Although not explicitly stated, the language is the same old tropes that the Red Pillers trot out at every opportunity.
 
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