The rise of OnlyFans

[413x]

I was saying it in jest, I don’t really mind being called a whore, I think it speaks more about the person calling me it and their use of language than it does about me.

Forced to make ends meet? I chose to do this, and still do now to this day to an even better degree as my reputation and networking increases

I’ve always picked my own clients and can turn down anyone for any reason. I make more in 2 days taking a wealthy lady to an event, then most do in 2 weeks. Since Onlyfans got popular and the bigger studios lost the monopoly I literally get paid to do things with some of the most attractive, interesting and kind women on the internet that other guys pay money to just for pictures of their feet or to send them one online message. It gives me plenty of free time to focus on my hobbies and my own appearance so I can parley that into more work.

I don’t know if you or your wife have got the looks or charisma to be successful in a very vain industry, so I don’t know if you could ever “sell yourself” or sexuality, nor do I judge the notion that you wouldn’t want to if you could, to each their own.

You not enjoying sexuality or “perversion” with women other than your wife in private, or not even enjoying that, doesn’t affect me, so why does me enjoying it with multiple partners each month affect you?

I’m delighted that you never “needed” to do so, but the notion that being homeless or starving is somehow better than having done what I do for a living is to me ridiculous. I could quit tomorrow and get a regular part time day job to keep me going as I’ve paid off my mortgage and car a long time ago, but even then, I’d be lazily stacking shelves in Tesco or putting in a lot of effort and stress into a career, I much prefer my life to that existence.

Absolutely.
It is often a choice. And a lucrative one.
If I was single, if I had the ability to do it.. I absolutely would.

So much better than typical job. Money wise, experience wise, and tbh.. I'd probably have more self worth feeling "wanted" as well.

Tad envious!

 

[Narj]

Has anyone made a bad joke about 'rise' from the title of this thread, oh they have, ok I'll just *mumbles and leaves, egg everywhere oh my god *

I quite like it when hurf gets going. And by 'quite' I mean 'hornbag handbag' and we're shopping in Aisle 1 today.

Go home drunk, you're magnolia!

 

[Diddums]

I was raised christian and was taught that sex is taboo and prostitution is evil, homos are all gonna burn in hell etc. Typical church stuff. I moved to Holland when I was 15 and became aware of things like prostitution & homosexuality. That already taught me that the church was a load of judgemental rubbish, however what sealed the deal was my wife's dissertation for her psychology degree, it was on the sex trade. I have absolutely no problem with people using their junk to make bank, like I cover my hands in gloves and use them to earn a living, why can't someone cover their jonny in latex and earn a living with that too? Absolutely no difference at all.

Anyone saying that it's bad and evil and calling people whores is just broadcasting their very limited life learning to the world tbh.


(ofc I still love ragging on Hurf because it's fun)

 

[413x]

I was raised christian and was taught that sex is taboo and prostitution is evil, homos are all gonna burn in hell etc. Typical church stuff. I moved to Holland when I was 15 and became aware of things like prostitution & homosexuality. That already taught me that the church was a load of judgemental rubbish, however what sealed the deal was my wife's dissertation for her psychology degree, it was on the sex trade. I have absolutely no problem with people using their junk to make bank, like I cover my hands in gloves and use them to earn a living, why can't someone cover their jonny in latex and earn a living with that too? Absolutely no difference at all.

Anyone saying that it's bad and evil and calling people whores is just broadcasting their very limited life learning to the world tbh.


(ofc I still love ragging on Hurf because it's fun)

Sometimes i wonder if many cases are envy.

You work 9-5 5 days a week, it's just a job.

You see others selling themselves, making loads, often seem pretty happy. Able to control their workloads etc.


Envy hidden behind "morals" and "self respect".

 

[fez]

Sometimes i wonder if many cases are envy.

You see others selling themselves, making loads, often seem pretty happy. Able to control their workloads etc.


Envy hidden behind "morals" and "self respect".

I don't think its envy in most cases, its understanding the reality of it. Its porn. It might not be on quite the same level as professional "traditional" porn but its porn. It will affect your relationships, your relationship with sex, your ability to find work or keep a job and its not a long term career. You're not going to have the same interest when you are 35 as you do when you are 25. You're not going to have many skills for the workplace if all you have done for 10 years is OF.

Thats ignoring the fact that the vast majority of people make **** all money from it and that can dry up quickly. As the saying goes, the internet is forever. Whether you like it or not, when you put naked content of yourself online, its there forever, somewhere.

Its just such a big thing to decide to do, especially when you are young. It can negatively effect the entirely trajectory of your life. For some people it will work out fine and I have zero issue if people want to do it but its a risky game.

 

[413x]

I don't think its envy in most cases, its understanding the reality of it. Its porn. It might not be on quite the same level as professional "traditional" porn but its porn. It will affect your relationships, your relationship with sex, your ability to find work or keep a job and its not a long term career. You're not going to have the same interest when you are 35 as you do when you are 25. You're not going to have many skills for the workplace if all you have done for 10 years is OF.

Thats ignoring the fact that the vast majority of people make **** all money from it and that can dry up quickly. As the saying goes, the internet is forever. Whether you like it or not, when you put naked content of yourself online, its there forever, somewhere.

Its just such a big thing to decide to do, especially when you are young. It can negatively effect the entirely trajectory of your life. For some people it will work out fine and I have zero issue if people want to do it but its a risky game.

I expect if you make not much you can probably keep it hidden.
If you make loads.. You don't need to worry about after.

As someone who has never enjoyed work I can very much see the appeal. And if I had the looks and confidence when I was younger and the world was like it was now.. Then I'd definitely give it a spin.

Unfortunately my confidence has come as my looks are fading! .
But if I was a woman I'd probably have a better chance. Especially a "gamer" girl!

 

[thebandit]

I found myself trying to dissuade a girl I was chatting to a while back from doing OF, I was basing this on the fact she was only 19 and its hard to know how the decisions made now will affect you and follow you for the rest of your life. I was very surprised she was even considering it tbh although she was very torn. The trouble is there are a small number of highly successful girls making very large sums of money and so it seems attractive. After I did think to myself if you are confident, know your own mind and confortable with what you are prepared to do and keep it at that, its actually hard to argue against, certainly doesn't feel like its exploitation.

 

[fez]

I found myself trying to dissuade a girl I was chatting to a while back from doing OF, I was basing this on the fact she was only 19 and its hard to know how the decisions made now will affect you and follow you for the rest of your life. I was very surprised she was even considering it tbh although she was very torn. The trouble is there are a small number of highly successful girls making very large sums of money and so it seems attractive. After I did think to myself if you are confident, know your own mind and confortable with what you are prepared to do and keep it at that, its actually hard to argue against, certainly doesn't feel like its exploitation.

Its like any highly lucrative career. Very few people make it big. Influencer, youtuber, footballer etc. You look at all of these things and outside the very very top few percent, everyone is scrabbling in the dirt to try and make a living.

I expect if you make not much you can probably keep it hidden.
If you make loads.. You don't need to worry about after.

I don't know. All it takes is for something to happen and your family or workplace find out and thats that.

But if I was a woman I'd probably have a better chance. Especially a "gamer" girl!

Oh that is rich pickings. Every nerds fantasy. "This super hot girl will definitely be my dream woman because she too plays computer games!"

 

[413x]

Its like any highly lucrative career. Very few people make it big. Influencer, youtuber, footballer etc. You look at all of these things and outside the very very top few percent, everyone is scrabbling in the dirt to try and make a living.



I don't know. All it takes is for something to happen and your family or workplace find out and thats that.



Oh that is rich pickings. Every nerds fantasy. "This super hot girl will definitely be my dream woman because she too plays computer games!"

Myself? I wouldn't be bothered by family. My mum would probably say "good going!"

Work place would obviously be different. But I suspect it's easier to keep it from Workplace than family.

Obviously for stunts like milkshake girl it's done. She's committed. But for someone behind the scenes... Probably not gonna come out.

 

[thebandit]

I think if someone is worried it would come out/ people they know might find it the answer is they should not start doing it. Surely though, you would have to be hoping you could make a success of it and if you did, then everyone would most likely find out.

 

[fez]

I think if someone is worried it would come out/ people they know might find it the answer is they should not start doing it. Surely though, you would have to be hoping you could make a success of it and if you did, then everyone would most likely find out.

I think that if you make enough money you might not care. There will be the vast majority of people on the platform making FA or certainly not "who gives a crap" money who very much don't want their friends, family, boss, coworkers etc to know they do porn.

 

[bazzabear]

I quite like it when hurf gets going. And by 'quite' I mean 'hornbag handbag' and we're shopping in Aisle 1 today.

I often have a lot of sympathy for his point of view. But Christ, he gets a bit 'roid rage' sometimes.

Given that porn existed for a long time before OF - I'm not sure what the objection is to it. It seems like a far better deal for the woman - managing and controlling what she does and how it is presented herself, hopefully gives her the opportunity to do only what she is comfortable with. And to get the money from it herself.
Mainstream porn has had many accusations of the actresses being horrendously treated, to the extent of rape when they weren't comfortable with what the people controlling the shoot wanted.
But it has never got a lot of attention, largely because of the attitude of the type of people on here who consider them 'just whores'. Presumably the same type who consider a woman wearing a short skirt has only herself to blame.

 

[hurfdurf]

The second paragraph was addressed to the thread generally, I hadn't commented in here before. I was actually thinking of the earlier discussion about 'destitute' women 'forced' to sell underwear etc.

I think the notion someone would be “forced” into sex work is incredibly far removed from
someone deciding to try and make a little extra from a side hustle selling used underwear, vs say, street prostitution or even people trafficking.

 

[hurfdurf]

I don't think its envy in most cases, its understanding the reality of it. Its porn. It might not be on quite the same level as professional "traditional" porn but its porn. It will affect your relationships, your relationship with sex, your ability to find work or keep a job and its not a long term career. You're not going to have the same interest when you are 35 as you do when you are 25. You're not going to have many skills for the workplace if all you have done for 10 years is OF.

Thats ignoring the fact that the vast majority of people make **** all money from it and that can dry up quickly. As the saying goes, the internet is forever. Whether you like it or not, when you put naked content of yourself online, its there forever, somewhere.

Its just such a big thing to decide to do, especially when you are young. It can negatively effect the entirely trajectory of your life. For some people it will work out fine and I have zero issue if people want to do it but its a risky game.

This implies that it will affect your life negatively? Most people I’ve worked with have done amazing things with Onlyfans. Bought houses they would otherwise be stuck renting, paid off student loans, gone on amazing holidays that involved shoots.

Some are studying vocational careers whilst doing so and leaving debt free with a massive head start in life. Some have done it for some side money and realised it’s more fun and earns them more than their 9-5. Some have met their long term partners and even gotten married.

And as others have said, for those that don’t take off, their online presence is so tiny that it doesn’t ever seep into life and gets erased.

It’s only risky if you are sex negative and think that someone seeing you naked or having sex is a bad thing. Over 3 million people have seen my junk at this point if you combine all the sources, I can assure you, it hasn’t changed anything for me for the worse nor has it made me any less valuable.

 

[Richie]

It’s only risky if you are sex negative and think that someone seeing you naked or having sex is a bad thing. Over 3 million people have seen my junk at this point if you combine all the sources, I can assure you, it hasn’t changed anything for me for the worse nor has it made me any less valuable.

Given the whole "women who sleep with lots of men = slags" whilst "men who sleep with loads of girls are studs" attitudes that still hang around even today, I wonder if what you mention above is seen differently, societally, dependant on if the person involved is male or female

 

[[FnG]magnolia]

Given the whole "women who sleep with lots of men = slags" whilst "men who sleep with loads of girls are studs" attitudes that still hang around even today, I wonder if what you mention above is seen differently, societally, dependant on if the person involved is male or female

I'd wager most of the respondents in this thread are male and would further safely bet that most of their views are covered in your first 11 words.

 

[the shadow]

OnlyFans model films herself being 'looked at' while at a store

Twitch streamer Katie Miller, from Tennessee, is facing backlash online after filming herself checking out at a grocery store while demonizing a man behind her in line for glancing in her direction.

www.dailymail.co.uk

 

[Ayahuasca]

^ daily rage bait.

 

[413x]

Given the whole "women who sleep with lots of men = slags" whilst "men who sleep with loads of girls are studs" attitudes that still hang around even today, I wonder if what you mention above is seen differently, societally, dependant on if the person involved is male or female

OF is changing that.

More OF enters the mainstream vs being a top shelf magazine.. The more it will become accepted.

I think its changing. You can see more and more comments on these stories of "more power to her".. Or "I'd do it if I could".

The deluge of "what do her parents think" is obviously still there. But over time, as happens with most things, it'll gain more acceptance. And probably be more competitive.

After all, there are more jobs than people who can pay for that. I'd never ever pay for it. Just because it's a product that doesn't interest me. Many can't afford it.
But it's far from a saturated (lol) market.

But in time it will probably just be seen as another job.

 

[hurfdurf]

OnlyFans model films herself being 'looked at' while at a store

Twitch streamer Katie Miller, from Tennessee, is facing backlash online after filming herself checking out at a grocery store while demonizing a man behind her in line for glancing in her direction.

www.dailymail.co.uk

Joey Swole calls out this kind of dumb pick me ass behaviour on his social media when people film in gyms and think it’s their personal recording studio.

“Omg I wore shorts that look more like a spray on thong to the gym and this guy looked at my ass when I squatted in front of him!!!”

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This is just the Daily Mail trying to copy him.