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What a faff. Either tell him or don't. Does it really need such deliberation?
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Just tell your mate, if it was me i'd want to know then its my decision if i confront my wife.
Or be sneaky about it and go down the pub and say lets have a laugh and see if we can find any one we know on tinder and accidentally find her|
Or be sneaky about it and go down the pub and say lets have a laugh and see if we can find any one we know on tinder and accidentally find her|
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Was good about 2 years ago when I last used it, sounds like it's gone downhill a bit!
Oi! you trying to say I'm an auld fart!!
May have been a cheeky dig but it really is crazy how people aged just a few years apart seem to interact so differently.It's quite rare I see anyone over 35 on tinder around here.
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Tinder is ****** great although it can give you a complex from time to time in my mid forties it has given me a new lease of life.
I have a few rules that give me more success.
1. Take loads of up to date pics then boil them down to the best 2 or 3.
2. Never crack a joke about sex.
3. Ask them within the first day of talking if they would meet you for a date, Ideally within the first 10 messages if they answer no move on.
4. Get their FB if you don't want catfished if that doesn't bother you then don't bother getting their FB.
But most important......
5. Lower your standards, pictures are two dimensional! It works for me lol
I have a few rules that give me more success.
1. Take loads of up to date pics then boil them down to the best 2 or 3.
2. Never crack a joke about sex.
3. Ask them within the first day of talking if they would meet you for a date, Ideally within the first 10 messages if they answer no move on.
4. Get their FB if you don't want catfished if that doesn't bother you then don't bother getting their FB.
But most important......
5. Lower your standards, pictures are two dimensional! It works for me lol
Tell your mate!!
A mate told me about mine being still active on POF and although it was somewhat of a sinking feeling, I was glad he told me.
I said nothing to her to start with, thinking it was just an old profile she left up (it is quite difficult to delete if you aren't too savvy with the PC) but she was on and offline pretty much every day.. It ended pretty much there..
Of course there were excuses and how she didn't think it important and she wanted to talk about it.
At the end of the day, there was nothing to be said. The trust was gone and that was that.
A mate told me about mine being still active on POF and although it was somewhat of a sinking feeling, I was glad he told me.
I said nothing to her to start with, thinking it was just an old profile she left up (it is quite difficult to delete if you aren't too savvy with the PC) but she was on and offline pretty much every day.. It ended pretty much there..
Of course there were excuses and how she didn't think it important and she wanted to talk about it.
At the end of the day, there was nothing to be said. The trust was gone and that was that.
This is the most important bit of online dating, people are way too picky..
If you get a message.. follow it up and run with it til you do actually decide to run to the hills
This girl doesn't look too bad, only had a few messages back and forth seems nice, then she told me she works for the council
I was like
Whats the problem with that? At least she works!
This girl doesn't look too bad, only had a few messages back and forth seems nice, then she told me she works for the council
I was like
Yeah so? At least she's working.
- I just hate the council and everything they do to peoples lives
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A good technique on Tinder is to swipe like to every picture, then just filter the ones that like you. Takes less than a minute to get through all your free swipes that way and can do it several times a day.
Just a numbers game after all.
It is a little sad when you've swiped through 100 women and go no matches mind :S
Just a numbers game after all.
It is a little sad when you've swiped through 100 women and go no matches mind :S
I'd be very surprised if their developers haven't already taken into account the fact that people do that. You're surely going to be lower priority in the queue to display to other matches than someone who has been selective. In fact surely there are some girls who get constant swipe rights to the point where some of the people doing that need to be filtered/eliminated from the queue and simply not shown to a lot of the girls they swipe right on.
Would be interesting to see how they handle it - if you swipe right to a hundred or so (or whatever the limit is) per day for a month.. so covering 3-6000 members... are they actually going to bump your profile into the queue ahead of the random profiles for each of those members(seems very unlikely). If I were them I'd be looking at filtering, especially filtering away from the girls who already have a big queue. You'd probably also filter based on how many reciprocal likes people get... i.e. you'd want to prioritise matching the more popular males with the hot/popular females... as you don't want miss 10/10 to log on and have to flick through 200+ fat gimps who've swiped right on her as she'll leave the app and for a dating site/app a hot female is much more important to them.
Would be interesting to see how they handle it - if you swipe right to a hundred or so (or whatever the limit is) per day for a month.. so covering 3-6000 members... are they actually going to bump your profile into the queue ahead of the random profiles for each of those members(seems very unlikely). If I were them I'd be looking at filtering, especially filtering away from the girls who already have a big queue. You'd probably also filter based on how many reciprocal likes people get... i.e. you'd want to prioritise matching the more popular males with the hot/popular females... as you don't want miss 10/10 to log on and have to flick through 200+ fat gimps who've swiped right on her as she'll leave the app and for a dating site/app a hot female is much more important to them.
I could not log in so I contacted them and they said
This is bull because I spoke to 2 women and decline an offer from a 3rd in a polite way told her I was bi sexual ( not bi) to get rid of her with out say sorry not interested, i didn't want to hurt her feelings. so she must have just done what some women do get annoyed.
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I think she must have killed him; he hasn't been online since he posted this....
I want to know the rest of the story!!!
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