Would like to try VR but sadly its adoption rate is so poor, I think the main and only good game for it in terms of game styles I like is half life alyx. Never got a chance to try 3d on oled but did hear very good things about it.
With vr, you have to choose to buy and use it. I do wonder what the adoption rate for RT would be if it was a separate add in card that is dedicated to RT. In a way, people have to buy the rt/dlss silicon with their new gpu and so may as well use it.