Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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What happened to correctly typed out emails and messages :(, why is it all this text speak with many women i've spoken to. I've sent them a nice medium sized message with a number of questions to get to know them and i get...

hi i like kinects e.g gutitar hero, alsorts i play htem on my mates kinects,i dont own,i wish...lol. I like r n b and a lot of top 40,most def lots of hugs and kisses

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What happened to correctly typed out emails and messages :(, why is it all this text speak with many women i've spoken to. I've sent them a nice medium sized message with a number of questions to get to know them and i get...



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You won't catch me using text speak, I hate it.
 
Lol wtf..

I'm currently messaging 4 and a half rather handsome fellas on PoF :D
I say 4 and a half because I don't know if the 5th one is a fitty yet, need to see more pics of him... I must say though, the standard of men is getting better on PoF! :p

I think men in general are just confused... and selfish. They do as they please, only care about what feels good at the time, don't bother thinking about consequences or consider other peoples feelings.

Oh sorry if I've just offended 99% of the guys on this forum :p

Maybe if your priority is considerate men who take account of your feelings, you would get further if you re-evaluated the type of guy you went for. Or, if your priority is looks, then stop moaning, 'cause you ain't going to get both unless you are a better catch than they are.
 
Maybe if your priority is considerate men who take account of your feelings, you would get further if you re-evaluated the type of guy you went for. Or, if your priority is looks, then stop moaning, 'cause you ain't going to get both unless you are a better catch than they are.
And how do I re-evaluate the type of guys I go for? Are you trying to say good looking guys are ****s in general? I don't know if a guy is a **** until I get to know them a bit more. It's not always easy to tell whether a guy is being nice just to get down my knickers or whether they're genuinely nice because they want to be with me.
 
And how do I re-evaluate the type of guys I go for? Are you trying to say good looking guys are ****s in general? I don't know if a guy is a **** until I get to know them a bit more. It's not always easy to tell whether a guy is being nice just to get down my knickers or whether they're genuinely nice because they want to be with me.

Agree 100% with you. Looks are essential, and while there are good looking guys who are ****s... there are many who are nice guys. Stick with it and dont drop your standards just because some of them might turn out to be idiots... its no different for us guys when searching out good looking women. :)
 
What happened to correctly typed out emails and messages :(, why is it all this text speak with many women i've spoken to. I've sent them a nice medium sized message with a number of questions to get to know them and i get...

hi i like kinects e.g gutitar hero, alsorts i play htem on my mates kinects,i dont own,i wish...lol. I like r n b and a lot of top 40,most def lots of hugs and kisses

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Case closed.
 
Maybe if your priority is considerate men who take account of your feelings, you would get further if you re-evaluated the type of guy you went for. Or, if your priority is looks, then stop moaning, 'cause you ain't going to get both unless you are a better catch than they are.

I guess your slightly bitter and a bit average looking then! What a generalised statement.
 
Agree 100% with you. Looks are essential, and while there are good looking guys who are ****s... there are many who are nice guys. Stick with it and dont drop your standards just because some of them might turn out to be idiots... its no different for us guys when searching out good looking women. :)

Amen to that.
 
It's not always easy to tell whether a guy is being nice just to get down my knickers or whether they're genuinely nice because they want to be with me.

EVERY guy wants to get down your knickers no matter how nice they appear, defeats the whole purpose somewhat doesn't it :rolleyes:

The real question is whether you're party to that or the type who has the integrity to commit to looking for a life long partner. In other words evaluate yourself first before judging others.
 
EVERY guy wants to get down your knickers no matter how nice they appear, defeats the whole purpose somewhat doesn't it :rolleyes:

The real question is whether you're party to that or the type who has the integrity to commit to looking for a life long partner. In other words evaluate yourself first before judging others.

True... im not the worlds worst chap and I still want to get down a hot girls knickers... it's in our DNA, it's what makes us human males. The million dollar question is what does the man do AFTER he has got in said knickers. :)
 
True... im not the worlds worst chap and I still want to get down a hot girls knickers... it's in our DNA, it's what makes us human males. The million dollar question is what does the man do AFTER he has got in said knickers. :)
Agreed - It's how they treat girls after they've gotten what they wanted. I'm not a sex toy, I don't want to be used then pushed aside. I wouldn't get with someone if I knew they were going to be a **** after they've slept with me.
 
Agreed - It's how they treat girls after they've gotten what they wanted. I'm not a sex toy, I don't want to be used then pushed aside. I wouldn't get with someone if I knew they were going to be a **** after they've slept with me.

The only way to combat that is to be strong and not sleep with them for as long as possible, and find out as much about them as you can first. Also be clear from the start that nothing is going to happen until you're comfortable... the douches will likely not call you again, the semi-douches will persevere for a couple of weeks, and the nice guys will carry on dating.

Can I see a link to your profile so I can see what you've written etc?
 
The million dollar question is what does the man do AFTER he has got in said knickers. :)

Used to happen a lot to me as a young buck but with time and maturity both parties know what to expect.

Having said that, I got burnt badly by a woman who solely wanted to be in my pants :mad: - unfortunately on that occasion I really loved her FML

Agreed - It's how they treat girls after they've gotten what they wanted. I'm not a sex toy, I don't want to be used then pushed aside. I wouldn't get with someone if I knew they were going to be a **** after they've slept with me.

Maybe you come across that way ? Us blokes are not very complex you know !
 
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