Lost my love of gaming :(

I've just found I have little time and I would rather exercise or watch a TV show. As others have said, so many games don't seem to respect your time and think more = better. Funnily enough thought I have just started playing TotK on the Switch and its got me hooked again. There is something peaceful about exploring in the most recent Zelda games. No pressure to really do anything. See something in the distance, go and check it out. Great fun.

Outside of that the only games I have really played in years have been Nintendo core games because they are usually short and fun. You can play 30 minutes and have a blast and then put it down. Everything is a few minutes section mostly.
 
I've just found I have little time and I would rather exercise or watch a TV show. As others have said, so many games don't seem to respect your time and think more = better. Funnily enough thought I have just started playing TotK on the Switch and its got me hooked again. There is something peaceful about exploring in the most recent Zelda games. No pressure to really do anything. See something in the distance, go and check it out. Great fun.

Outside of that the only games I have really played in years have been Nintendo core games because they are usually short and fun. You can play 30 minutes and have a blast and then put it down. Everything is a few minutes section mostly.

This resonates a lot. The most enjoyable game I’ve played in quite sometime was PS5 Rachet and Clank.
 
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What caused you guys/gals (as if there's girls here lol) to lose your enthusiasm for gaming? Maybe a break up? Depression? Just generally fed up? Please share I'd love to hear it.
Old age. Lost my sense of wonder.

The same for TV shows and movies. I cannot do it anymore. TV went through a bit of a golden age (for me anyway) about 10 years ago, and now it just all feels very same-same.

The only thing I can do for literally hours upon hours, is reading books or hang with my family.

Think I’m up to 29 books read so far this year.

Games, I’ve tried Assassin’s Creed Mirage, Diablo and 1-2 others this year. I can’t seem to make it past the 2nd gaming session. It’s just not interesting. Been thinking about giving Warcraft a go again, just to see if the love is still there. Because, I had a massive love affair with that game back in the day.
 
Old age. Lost my sense of wonder.

The same for TV shows and movies. I cannot do it anymore. TV went through a bit of a golden age (for me anyway) about 10 years ago, and now it just all feels very same-same.

The only thing I can do for literally hours upon hours, is reading books or hang with my family.

Think I’m up to 29 books read so far this year.

Games, I’ve tried Assassin’s Creed Mirage, Diablo and 1-2 others this year. I can’t seem to make it past the 2nd gaming session. It’s just not interesting. Been thinking about giving Warcraft a go again, just to see if the love is still there. Because, I had a massive love affair with that game back in the day.
Have you tried watching The Boys? I've always hated TV shows but The Boys is really awesome. If you watch it with a neutral stance,(as in you don't care for right or left,or even center)and you can get past some of the frankly jaw dropping vulgarity,it is really entertaining. I'm up to S3 ep1. Give it a try bro. You never know,it might reinvigorate your passion.
 
I’ll give it a go.

I’ve tried most of the ‘must see’ shows and found them to be garbage. Ted Lasso to be the latest. Think I did 3 episodes before giving up. So predictable it’s painful.

Happy to admit that the problem is me, I just seem to need something deeper and more meaningful.

Been meaning to play through TLOU P2 again. That’s the last game I remember finishing.
 
The Boys is great because it shows just how hypocritical these so called celebrities are behind closed doors. And William Butcher is just fantastic lol. I love Karl Urbans acting, he's really funny, whilst being utterly serious. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.
 

This video hits the nail on the head,at least for me.

Thanks for sharing that link, good watch and a little sad how it’s all ended up, basically cooperate greed has ruined everything, back in the day devs had the creativity and free reign to make what they wanted, now we are stuck with a lot of talentless studios, studios told what to do by cooperate heads in it just for the money and so on.
So with the exception of few decent studios with some creativity still left, we have the rest making copy/paste games and remasters for more profits.
When’s the ps5 pro releasing, when’s the next gen consoles coming, what about the games!! People forget the latter.
 
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Also,shout out to Modern Vintage Gamer. He is awesome. Goodbye XBOX 360 :(

 
I've recently found that I have more desire to replay games I really enjoyed (and remakes).

So I recently completed both Resident Evil and RE2 Remakes, I really enjoyed those. I have both 3 and 4 ready to go, but thought I'd have a break - I'm jumping back into Horizon FW, man I love the graphics these days...amazing.

As some above, far more into the tech - get a PSVR2 and still break out the GP Wiz for the odd but of retro gaming...I do find myself lacking much interest in todays games, I guess it's an age thing.
 
I'm not even sure what the point of a PS5 Pro is tbh. Why not save their load for PS6? Maybe they have something special tucked in their knickers,who knows.

These pro consoles are a joke, a mid gen refresh that is basically the anthesis of a console. A console is meant to be a fixed spec piece of hardware that usually lasted 5+ years before being replaced. Sega were really the only ones to try "upgrades" in the past and it backfired on them massively, the 32x, Sega cd, Saturn and Dreamcast all launched in a 4 year time frame and it sunk Sega as a hardware company in the end. People bought into these things and they were canned quite soon after. By the time the Dreamcast rolled around people had already had enough even though that was an actual good console, people had been burned by Sega too many times and politely told them to sit on it and swivel.

I honestly don't know why anyone would want a pro console as it arguably makes the next offering less impressive. Then again I fail to see much in the way of impressive in terms of tech in the console market these days, MS\Sony just flogging essentially the same AMD based SFF PC with a different box and OS. There's really not that much excitement around consoles these days vs back in the early days.
 
I've recently found that I have more desire to replay games I really enjoyed (and remakes).

So I recently completed both Resident Evil and RE2 Remakes, I really enjoyed those. I have both 3 and 4 ready to go, but thought I'd have a break - I'm jumping back into Horizon FW, man I love the graphics these days...amazing.

As some above, far more into the tech - get a PSVR2 and still break out the GP Wiz for the odd but of retro gaming...I do find myself lacking much interest in todays games, I guess it's an age thing.
Go and install Dolphin on your PC. Then get some GameCube ROMs. If you get F-Zero GX you can load Action Replay to unlock F-Zero AX. Truly stunning they squeezed all that into 1.4gb. Still looks beautiful as well.
 
These pro consoles are a joke, a mid gen refresh that is basically the anthesis of a console. A console is meant to be a fixed spec piece of hardware that usually lasted 5+ years before being replaced. Sega were really the only ones to try "upgrades" in the past and it backfired on them massively, the 32x, Sega cd, Saturn and Dreamcast all launched in a 4 year time frame and it sunk Sega as a hardware company in the end. People bought into these things and they were canned quite soon after. By the time the Dreamcast rolled around people had already had enough even though that was an actual good console, people had been burned by Sega too many times and politely told them to sit on it and swivel.

I honestly don't know why anyone would want a pro console as it arguably makes the next offering less impressive. Then again I fail to see much in the way of impressive in terms of tech in the console market these days, MS\Sony just flogging essentially the same AMD based SFF PC with a different box and OS. There's really not that much excitement around consoles these days vs back in the early days.
But it is a fixed spec really, just that it has a faster CPU and GPU? Issue with previous gens and their 'upgrades', was that it was an add-on, and a game had to support the feature. With the pro you'll essentially get a boost to all your games, those that have the RT option but only hit 30FPS might get to 60FPS etc. So, if you have the money, why not? No different to those who upgrade a PC GPU every couple of years...it's nice to have the option.

Got to disagree about why the Dreamcast failed, Saturn had already been a failure for them, largely thanks to the PS1, then you had the new Sega 'stand alone' console vs the juggernaut PS2, which played your old PS1 games and was also a DVD player!

Agree on the comment re; XB/Sony using very similar tech, and what with the shrinking exclusives as well...you're really not into ecosystem lock-in. I suppose at least Sony introduced the Dualsense, but, like those 'old school' add-ons, games need to be programmed to utilise, which costs money, so the benefits are largely ignored outside triggers for guns on a lot of games :(
 
It’s down to game mechanics, reskinning simple mechanics does nothing for experienced gamers. It ends up as whack-a-mole.

Same with movies - I prefer long well thought out stories/games that aren’t a simple pickup.
Or a max 15 minute round game.

However my days of gaming are gone after being turned off by the need to satisfy the dollar rather than the customer.

I now prefer making things as it rewards my brain better.
 
But it is a fixed spec really, just that it has a faster CPU and GPU? Issue with previous gens and their 'upgrades', was that it was an add-on, and a game had to support the feature. With the pro you'll essentially get a boost to all your games, those that have the RT option but only hit 30FPS might get to 60FPS etc. So, if you have the money, why not? No different to those who upgrade a PC GPU every couple of years...it's nice to have the option.

A fixed spec also takes into consideration clock speeds and core counts, if they're increasing these then the spec has changed. The ps5 pro is rumoured to be using a new iteration of the rdna gpu with better ray tracing capabilities, and it will likely get a cpu clock speed bump as well. And yes games can get a boost from this but that's one of the issues, it goes against what a console is meant to be and has been up until these 'pro' gimmicks came out, that being a fixed spec piece of hardware that you have for around 5+ years before it gets replaced.

When Microsoft were launching the original xbox and selling their online experience one of the things mentioned in one of the blurbs that their online was an 'even playing field' as everyone had the same hardware so nobody had any advantage. They were comparing it to pc gaming at the time. Now that's all been turned on its head as people with pro consoles can get better framerates and that helps in multiplayer gaming. So their even playing field has vanished and its more like a pc upgrade where better framerates can give an advantage. That's not what console gaming was about, yet because Sony and MS want to make a few bucks extra they essentially dip into the pc mindset and offer what's basically an upgrade halfway through the console lifecycle.

As for Sega, yes Sony had something to do with it, but Sega ****** off their own fanbase and basically drove them away by releasing upgrades and consoles and cutting support for them far sooner than many expected, for instance the Saturn had a lifespan of not even 3 years before being replaced by Dreamcast.

The entire point of the upgrades they brought out for the Megadrive was the SNES was a superior console and the Megadrive was starting to show its age. It had a very limited colour palette, its audio in games could be crackly. You just have to look at Streetfighter 2 Turbo for the SNES and compare it to Special Champion edition for the Magadrive, compared to the SNES the Megadrive version looked far duller due to the colours and the audio for the moves in the Sega version was crackly compared to the SNES.

Sega jumped on the cd bandwagon, that was a failure, they tried again with the 32x, produced a grand total of 40 games for it before canning it (they even had some games requiring a cd and a 32 x to play), they had a console called the Neptune in development which was an all in one Megadrive\32x but that never made it out to market, then the Saturn came out, that got a barely 3 year life span as their top console before the dreamcast replaced it. Sega just burned their bridges by releasing upgrades and consoles before killing them off long before they were expected to.
 
It’s down to game mechanics, reskinning simple mechanics does nothing for experienced gamers. It ends up as whack-a-mole.

Same with movies - I prefer long well thought out stories/games that aren’t a simple pickup.
Or a max 15 minute round game.

However my days of gaming are gone after being turned off by the need to satisfy the dollar rather than the customer.

I now prefer making things as it rewards my brain better.

I haven’t fell out of love with gaming but this describes my outlook well.

I find I struggle to engage with many games as they are reskins of reskins. I have hundreds of games and I often find myself trying to decide what to play and nothing stands out that makes me want to play.

So then I go to the PlayStation store or Xbox store to see what “new” games are out that take my fancy but inevitably end up realising what I already knew - nowt of interest. Or on the rare occasion there is a title of interest, I’m not willing to pay £70 for it.

I also find my attention and interest is not well aligned to the notion of replaying titles either so some games I have really enjoyed, I just can’t face playing again as I’ve been there and got the t-shirt.

Im not sure what the key drivers are of the endless reskin and remasters that we have these days, but I suspect a market of gamers still willing to part with their money is a big factor.

It often feels like we have the games that we, as a community, deserve. Until gamers themselves stop spending money on the same old same old titles, we won’t see any real change.
 
It’s down to game mechanics, reskinning simple mechanics does nothing for experienced gamers. It ends up as whack-a-mole.

Same with movies - I prefer long well thought out stories/games that aren’t a simple pickup.
Or a max 15 minute round game.

However my days of gaming are gone after being turned off by the need to satisfy the dollar rather than the customer.

I now prefer making things as it rewards my brain better.
Yes I do still love games,by god I do, but they are just so mundane nowadays. 100+ hours to barely finish an assassins creed game? Endless fetch quests, boring monotonous missions. No thanks. I'd rather sprint down chemical plant zone or race through Big surf shores.
 
I've just found I have little time and I would rather exercise or watch a TV show. As others have said, so many games don't seem to respect your time and think more = better. Funnily enough thought I have just started playing TotK on the Switch and its got me hooked again. There is something peaceful about exploring in the most recent Zelda games. No pressure to really do anything. See something in the distance, go and check it out. Great fun.

Outside of that the only games I have really played in years have been Nintendo core games because they are usually short and fun. You can play 30 minutes and have a blast and then put it down. Everything is a few minutes section mostly.

Totk is amazing, really got into it, after a few months away, it feels impossible to go back to now lol, I seem to get really into a game for a few weeks / months, then life gets in the way, busy with other things and then it feels alien to continue from where I was.
 
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