I have, in the literal sense, (I. E unsolicited physical contact of a sexual nature) been 'assaulted' many times by women.
Don't think I have ever physically sexually assaulted anyone else (but then I suppose I have given the wife and former girlfriends the odd unsolicited tap on the back side...) ... No doubt I have made the odd 'of colour' remark and have asked out women (not work colleagues) and been rebuffed (which some women seem to classify as sexual harassment but of course only if they are not interested...)
On the other hand I have had my genitals groped twice, once by a complete stranger and once by a fellow pupil at school, had my backside pinched a lot in clubs and woken up when away with a uni expo club to find a drunk female member of the club trying to undress/mount me.
#metoo?
Of course being 6'+ male and circa 200 pounds I never felt personally threatened in any of these circumstances and at the time mostly found it funny or at least it something that has not troubled me much since.
I suppose the really question is is it your actions that matter or who you inherently are?
I can't in reality stop being the man I am no more than I can stop myself being white and hetrosexual.
But these days identity politics seems to have caused the 'original sin' of being born a certain way to count more than your actions and words in some circumstances.