SO I have decided to come back to this old post I made many moons ago from my above post! Many many things have happened, good and bad, more good in fact and I would like to share with those people here thinking its the end of the world... She did leave me. For my friend (such an old cliche!) I was suspicious of this wet wipe for a while but he was generally harmless. He came out of no where and instantly fell in love with my misses. When i did find out, it was 'loose your head' time. Went to his apartment, called him out, went ape **** as SHE was in there which was actually how I found out about their secret love! I have been in trouble with the police many times since then over this as we are only humans, our 'apes' inside who control our emotions want to lash out. But there is greener grass. since This revelation 12 months ago, I am a new man. I have found a whole new group of friends, retained my old friends which is a miracle as we had mutual friends, the ex is out of the circle for her lying twisted games. I have never had so much fun in my life. Been on countless dates, had a several girlfriends and 'found' myself as they say. My life is where I want it to be now, without the break up i wouldn't of had the life I have had over the last 12 to 18 months. I am single again as I will not settle for someone who doesn't click with me. I still sort of love my ex but in a a different way. If it all goes wrong do not hide but look after yourself and eventually you will thank yourself for it.