move on from the one girl, shes not for you and you're not for her.
Exactly but at the same time I shouldn’t beat myself up for being attracted to her. After all I do have mental health problems too.
move on from the one girl, shes not for you and you're not for her.
What is even your point here?Exactly but at the same time I shouldn’t beat myself up for being attracted to her. After all I do have mental health problems too.
Point is I get very negative and self loathing when there’s no need to be. Just need to keep it real.What is even your point here? Its just waffle.
apologies as I have edited my reply, felt a bit harsh.Point is I get very negative and self loathing when there’s no need to be. Just need to keep it real.
Yes my mental health does strongly affect my ability to form normal relationships.apologies as I have edited my reply, felt a bit harsh.
Focus on that and maintaining friendships first.Yes my mental health does strongly affect my ability to form normal relationships.
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Exactly but at the same time I shouldn’t beat myself up for being attracted to her. After all I do have mental health problems too.
Thing is the guys are queuing up to date this woman, it’s not just me.I think you never focus on one particular woman if you're single until you're actually dating them.
Thing is the guys are queuing up to date this woman, it’s not just me.
And? Get over it.Thing is the guys are queuing up to date this woman, it’s not just me.
And? Get over it.
are you trolling now?Doesn’t bother me that they are, just affirms the fact that I’m not the only poor sucker who’s attracted to her and that it’s perfectly normal. No need to hate myself because she’s not interested, it’s not worth it or good for my mental health.
It clearly does bother you, as otherwise you would not of mentioned it as a comeback only a few replies ago.
but the amount of guys wanting to date her does bother you?No it doesn’t bother me she can date whoever and however many she likes, I’m just glad she doesn’t hate me or think I’m weird. It makes me feel better just knowing that.
but the amount of guys wanting to date her does bother you?
No it doesn’t, I know I’m not the only one and she can’t date everybody so most of us are in the reject bin. I’m perfectly fine with that.
I have to be psychologically otherwise it’s just a world of mental pain. She’s not the one for me and I’m not the one for her, I have to accept that even if I don’t want to. What helps is realizing that other grown men have crushes on her as well so I don’t feel like such a weirdo.But, you're clearly not fine with it. You need to be, but you're not.