Communication and social groups are key. If you don’t have many there are ways to find them. Fleeting and disposable friends can be a useful way to get the contact you need.
In the troubles I have had I have lent on a small group of friends and family. Maybe 10 people total but I have some long term friends I see irregularly who have offered help, a room or to talk if needed. I have even been very open with people at work and it helps. I am not one for friends at work but they all know so they know why I’m grumpy and it has helped. They are there to talk if I need them or feel down.
Be open with everyone you know. There is no need to go through anything alone and honestly talking helps. There is no stigma to it. Too many people bottle up and think they can only talk to close friends. It really isnt the case. I find venting on here helps too. If the wife ever found this thread I’m sure she would try and use it against me but I need the vent to strangers.
In the troubles I have had I have lent on a small group of friends and family. Maybe 10 people total but I have some long term friends I see irregularly who have offered help, a room or to talk if needed. I have even been very open with people at work and it helps. I am not one for friends at work but they all know so they know why I’m grumpy and it has helped. They are there to talk if I need them or feel down.
Be open with everyone you know. There is no need to go through anything alone and honestly talking helps. There is no stigma to it. Too many people bottle up and think they can only talk to close friends. It really isnt the case. I find venting on here helps too. If the wife ever found this thread I’m sure she would try and use it against me but I need the vent to strangers.
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