So, let's take your reasoning, which I dont disagree with necessarily, and apply it to the situation:
UK is doing 'ok'. Not a total disaster at all, EU is not ruining us, we're not falling apart or any such thing. So...........let's let the population, none of whom really know what is best for anybody else, decide on whether to throw the entire country's future into a HUGE unknown with the *potential* for disaster?
My problem all along is that the gamble was so unnecessary and way too high-stake when things weren't going that badly beforehand. There was no desperate situation that called for this. And as you say, we're letting people who DONT know what is best make the choice. It's absurd.
And of course I am entirely bitter that I think the decision might have gone another way if not for xenophobes and racists that were pandered to. Leave supporters are completely denying this is a thing at all, but I think that's freaking ridiculous and it's patently obvious it is.
So yea, I'm frustrated and I'm not going to NOT complain about it. Democracy isn't about taking a vote and shutting up. It's not a sports match where we go, "Jolly match good fellow, maybe next time" and suck up any hard feelings because it's just a sports match at the end of the day. This could easily have deep and meaningful impacts on the lives of ordinary people, big and small.
Absolutely, however you must agree, that its hard to look at people as intellectually and morally superior with the kind of language they use and the emotional and disparaging way they dismiss anyone who holds a different opinion.
The argument a lot seem to be relying on, is people who want to leave are stupid, and those that want to stay are right.
Because........... well for a lot of them, thats about as far is it goes, because they dont really know why they might be right, its fear of the unknown and they are lashing out at those that have caused that fear.
Like it or not, the country is not going to spiral out of control, or go bankrupt, there are not going to be food shortages, the EU isnt going to cut us off from buying their cheap cheese.
I dont even think this is actually going to result in the UK leaving the EU, its most likely going to a revised membership, where they keep our money coming in, we accept a hard cap on free movement of workers, and the EU court cant over ride those in the UK.
There is simply too much money at stake for the split to happen.
Lots of people are are angry, lots of people NEED to posture, such as the EU president to legitimize his position after completely failing to prevent the UK voting to leave, its going to be OK.