So this weekend I found out my girlfriend of several months is married and has a child
Never thought I would say that sentence!
ouch!. back off.. at this point you have done nothing wrong, it is all on here, you did not know... but do you really want it on your conscience when there is a kid. its easy on the outside looking in, but i would like to think if it were me i would be saying no way, come back to me when the relationship is over and it is all sorted out if that is what you want.
but even then.................... would you ever fully trust anyone who had done that to their not just husband and kid? I actually did... my ex wife had a very very checkered past... but she was up front about it and said new leaf, new life etc and i chose to trust her.
I ended up a close friend down as well as notice when i said "ex wife". Mind you once the dust settled i realised it wasnt much of a friend and am now in a far better relationship with a child of my own so it all came good in the end.
sorry either way tho, seems like you have a touch decision eitherway.
Yep married and still live together but dont even talk and don't share a bed and are only together for the kid.
in which case she will be happy to tell the husband then and get it all in the open?..... if the marriage is now just one of convenience and is just for the child then, assuming she is being honest that may work.